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Well, again sorry I dont reply ( offer advice) to u all. How can I do that when I do everything wrong?
When I said in the beginning my daughter was fine, I at least wanted to believe that, escp compared to my son.- again still wont talk or smile and honestly we have a proper hygiene issue which is not new... Still does her electronics ( even before them she still same ) People say Depresion and I see no diference in her since she was 6 years old. I belive shes antisocial or social anxiety. Her oldest half brother was this way, but now getting more outgoing. ( another mother)
My son, same ol issues. Hes so demanding and one minute can be happy and the next watch out. I swear Bipolar and or ADD/ADHD and ODD. He broke glasses at the end isle of Kmart one day cuz he wouldnt listen to me when i said slow down- He had the cart which he demands to "drive" or theres his attitude. He threatens to hit the glass doors to the frozen section in the store if I dont let him do or get what he wants- or if he is taking too long. He can stand there with the door open for 10 minutes if I let him! He is biting himself , kicking doors, refuses to practice math, telling time etc with us saying WE R WRONG!!! He also has been saying nightly theres people knocking on the door or windows, what if someone breaks in etc. (I worry schiztophrenic but praying not- rather him lie and say it for whatever) Now, once a neighbor WAS at the door due to a leak from our roof. I do look every time if someones there, reasure him its ok, we have bars all over, overall safe area and neighborhood, our neighbors are nosey so they are always checking on everyones house daily. We have emergency plans in action as well. One time he was ready to tell me someone was there but I stopped him and said if ur gonna tell me that your grounded because you cant make lies or things up to get to stay up, or me to sleep in your room, u will be grounded- he changed it to his car. THEN.... if we ask him to pick something up and give him time, and he doesnt do it, we finally say" we are going to throw out if he doesnt pick it up" He demands" are u throwing it out, u anwer me first than Ill answer u etc" He can be so happy and good, answers adults when spoken to in public ( when in good mood), and he can get complimants of "hes so cute, hes a ladys man" But thaan a drop of a quarter, hes got this look and just turns tantrum, or mad or demanding etc" Im so blah I cant even put this all into the proper words.
Once again, we had plans to volunteer today, but the refusal of hygiene, the arguments from both we couldnt go! It looks bad on me to keep canceling! This is another reason I have no job! I have no one to watch the kids nor money to pay them. My dad is ill, forget that idea. I threw out our volunteer shirts because its all done. Arguments everytime, and my daughter wants me to do to most of the work while there anyway!!!! Umm this was for her Honor Society, I just have to do a little work cuz shes not old enough to be there on her own. If she was, I doubt things would be different.
I really thought spending time with them, making sure they r happy ( i tried thought i was doing a good or least decent job), making sure they are fed, clothed, healthy, in school and having fun but yet learning about rules-life- etc, Loving them , Id do anything I can for them, uggh I cant even put it all down - my words are just gone...I LOVE THEM SO MUCH.....THEY ARE MY LIFE!!!!!!!!
Well, Im all out of ideas, everyone( talked to doctors they r included) says its all my fault theres not one thing wrong with them so fine, its all me. Sorry to repeat myself as usual
sorry for the bad spelling as usual.. i type fast or am blah when typing and just dont feel like trying to correct it to be honest :/
When I said in the beginning my daughter was fine, I at least wanted to believe that, escp compared to my son.- again still wont talk or smile and honestly we have a proper hygiene issue which is not new... Still does her electronics ( even before them she still same ) People say Depresion and I see no diference in her since she was 6 years old. I belive shes antisocial or social anxiety. Her oldest half brother was this way, but now getting more outgoing. ( another mother)
My son, same ol issues. Hes so demanding and one minute can be happy and the next watch out. I swear Bipolar and or ADD/ADHD and ODD. He broke glasses at the end isle of Kmart one day cuz he wouldnt listen to me when i said slow down- He had the cart which he demands to "drive" or theres his attitude. He threatens to hit the glass doors to the frozen section in the store if I dont let him do or get what he wants- or if he is taking too long. He can stand there with the door open for 10 minutes if I let him! He is biting himself , kicking doors, refuses to practice math, telling time etc with us saying WE R WRONG!!! He also has been saying nightly theres people knocking on the door or windows, what if someone breaks in etc. (I worry schiztophrenic but praying not- rather him lie and say it for whatever) Now, once a neighbor WAS at the door due to a leak from our roof. I do look every time if someones there, reasure him its ok, we have bars all over, overall safe area and neighborhood, our neighbors are nosey so they are always checking on everyones house daily. We have emergency plans in action as well. One time he was ready to tell me someone was there but I stopped him and said if ur gonna tell me that your grounded because you cant make lies or things up to get to stay up, or me to sleep in your room, u will be grounded- he changed it to his car. THEN.... if we ask him to pick something up and give him time, and he doesnt do it, we finally say" we are going to throw out if he doesnt pick it up" He demands" are u throwing it out, u anwer me first than Ill answer u etc" He can be so happy and good, answers adults when spoken to in public ( when in good mood), and he can get complimants of "hes so cute, hes a ladys man" But thaan a drop of a quarter, hes got this look and just turns tantrum, or mad or demanding etc" Im so blah I cant even put this all into the proper words.
Once again, we had plans to volunteer today, but the refusal of hygiene, the arguments from both we couldnt go! It looks bad on me to keep canceling! This is another reason I have no job! I have no one to watch the kids nor money to pay them. My dad is ill, forget that idea. I threw out our volunteer shirts because its all done. Arguments everytime, and my daughter wants me to do to most of the work while there anyway!!!! Umm this was for her Honor Society, I just have to do a little work cuz shes not old enough to be there on her own. If she was, I doubt things would be different.
I really thought spending time with them, making sure they r happy ( i tried thought i was doing a good or least decent job), making sure they are fed, clothed, healthy, in school and having fun but yet learning about rules-life- etc, Loving them , Id do anything I can for them, uggh I cant even put it all down - my words are just gone...I LOVE THEM SO MUCH.....THEY ARE MY LIFE!!!!!!!!
Well, Im all out of ideas, everyone( talked to doctors they r included) says its all my fault theres not one thing wrong with them so fine, its all me. Sorry to repeat myself as usual
sorry for the bad spelling as usual.. i type fast or am blah when typing and just dont feel like trying to correct it to be honest :/