My Difficult Child and I are talking again... not close, but talking. She does this every time. She blows up and says really mean things to me and then starts slowly trying to get close again. My feelings get so messed up when she starts to get close to me. She hates her life and hates her boyfriend, but stays with him because she doesn't know where else to go. That is what our last blowout was about, because I refused to let her move in with me. Now last Sat she calls and leaves a voice mail. She was crying and pleading me to call her back. I didn't call back and a very small part of me felt guilty. She always tells me that I am never there for her emotionally, and she is right!!! Because I dont know how to !!!