My son is 14 and just got kicked off the baseball team for citizenship. In a matter of 3 wks I realized he was drinking with friends on one weekend, got stoned with other friends, sent a naked picture of himself to a girl and got arrested for stealing 2 candy bars at Vons. I am a single mom and im afraid to answer my phone thinking it will be somethine else that he has done. He wont do anything I ask him and I have to ask and get to a yelling point until he listens. Before things get to a point of no return for him I want to do something. Any suggestions. He doesnt seem to care about anything. Calls me names. I want to send him away to a place where he will realize how good he really has it. We are in San Diego, CA any places exist???