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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 725501" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Anger makes us look crazy and out of control. My mom was a screamer with hysteria. When she started up, I tuned her out and thought of different things. It didn't penetrate. The only thing firm in my mind was "crazy biotch." Not nice of mr but she acted insane. She never tried to think mindfully before speaking nor could she be logical when upset. Calm logic would have scared me, like maybe she was serious.</p><p></p><p>And I never did drugs and I tried to be home for curfew. Usually made it or I at least called. Her biggest screaming fits were false accusations about drugs and sex (never did either) and her biggest hysteria of all ..i dated boys who weren't Jewish. The ranting failed. My two husbands were not Jewish, nor am I. The religion is fine, but it doesn't resonate with me so I, at this late date, sometimes forget my parents were Jewish. I am spiriitual not tied to any religion.</p><p>You can't scream your values into your adult and get what you want unless the adult child wants it too.</p><p></p><p>Calm rules <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 725501, member: 1550"] Anger makes us look crazy and out of control. My mom was a screamer with hysteria. When she started up, I tuned her out and thought of different things. It didn't penetrate. The only thing firm in my mind was "crazy biotch." Not nice of mr but she acted insane. She never tried to think mindfully before speaking nor could she be logical when upset. Calm logic would have scared me, like maybe she was serious. And I never did drugs and I tried to be home for curfew. Usually made it or I at least called. Her biggest screaming fits were false accusations about drugs and sex (never did either) and her biggest hysteria of all ..i dated boys who weren't Jewish. The ranting failed. My two husbands were not Jewish, nor am I. The religion is fine, but it doesn't resonate with me so I, at this late date, sometimes forget my parents were Jewish. I am spiriitual not tied to any religion. You can't scream your values into your adult and get what you want unless the adult child wants it too. Calm rules :) [/QUOTE]
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