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Just when I think I've got this the bottom falls out!
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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 682997" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Soooootired, how I feel for you. This is the hardest thing known to man. I so understand the pain of it and being so tired of it all. Your daughter, like my two, has made some horrible choices. They are her choices. She is 39 years old, and there are places out there where she can get the help she needs. We are not trained to handle the kind of counseling both she and her children need to come to grips with the reality of this lifestyle.</p><p> You are strong, Soooootired, you did not let her verbal abuse manipulate you into doing what she wanted you to do. That is big, and it is hard. She will have to learn that she cannot dump all of this on you. Of course it is upsetting. This is abuse of your love for your grandchildren and her. You deserve to have some time for yourself to relax. You have value and you matter. Shame on her, for trying to put her choices on your doorstep. Stay strong, your response is appropriate and correct. We are not doormats to be used and disrespected. Although you are sad and feeling down right now, you were very strong in standing up for yourself. THAT is the example your daughter needs to see.</p><p></p><p>(((HUGS)))</p><p>leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 682997, member: 19522"] Soooootired, how I feel for you. This is the hardest thing known to man. I so understand the pain of it and being so tired of it all. Your daughter, like my two, has made some horrible choices. They are her choices. She is 39 years old, and there are places out there where she can get the help she needs. We are not trained to handle the kind of counseling both she and her children need to come to grips with the reality of this lifestyle. You are strong, Soooootired, you did not let her verbal abuse manipulate you into doing what she wanted you to do. That is big, and it is hard. She will have to learn that she cannot dump all of this on you. Of course it is upsetting. This is abuse of your love for your grandchildren and her. You deserve to have some time for yourself to relax. You have value and you matter. Shame on her, for trying to put her choices on your doorstep. Stay strong, your response is appropriate and correct. We are not doormats to be used and disrespected. Although you are sad and feeling down right now, you were very strong in standing up for yourself. THAT is the example your daughter needs to see. (((HUGS))) leafy [/QUOTE]
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