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Just when I thought I couldn't get any stupider.
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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 708746" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>You really only have two choices. </p><p></p><p>1. Tell the bank the checkbook was stolen and hopefully get off the hook for the money overdrawn and the other checks out there. </p><p></p><p>2. Without telling them it was stolen, put a stop-payment on all the individual checks that have yet to be passed (which will cost you even more $). </p><p></p><p>To stop from having to pay the thousands of dollars, you very well may have to file a police report. Are you 100% SURE he personally passed the checks? Have you seen copies of the checks? I mean, is it possible a "friend" of his did this? </p><p></p><p>I understand not wanting to call the police. The last time our son stole from us (several hundred dollars in cash) the only reason the cops weren't called is I just couldn't take it. Jabber would have, I think, though cash is hard to impossible to prove. There is a dollar point I would have finally pressed charges, but he hadn't reached it, luckily for him. Or if there had been guns missing...that would have done it too. I know exactly how you feel...for me, the several thousand in checks would do it. Still, I couldn't face it when it was me...so I don't judge if your limit is higher than mine. </p><p></p><p>My heart goes out to you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 708746, member: 17309"] You really only have two choices. 1. Tell the bank the checkbook was stolen and hopefully get off the hook for the money overdrawn and the other checks out there. 2. Without telling them it was stolen, put a stop-payment on all the individual checks that have yet to be passed (which will cost you even more $). To stop from having to pay the thousands of dollars, you very well may have to file a police report. Are you 100% SURE he personally passed the checks? Have you seen copies of the checks? I mean, is it possible a "friend" of his did this? I understand not wanting to call the police. The last time our son stole from us (several hundred dollars in cash) the only reason the cops weren't called is I just couldn't take it. Jabber would have, I think, though cash is hard to impossible to prove. There is a dollar point I would have finally pressed charges, but he hadn't reached it, luckily for him. Or if there had been guns missing...that would have done it too. I know exactly how you feel...for me, the several thousand in checks would do it. Still, I couldn't face it when it was me...so I don't judge if your limit is higher than mine. My heart goes out to you. [/QUOTE]
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