Just wondering what ya'll do. I feel that I always spend way too much time dealing with difficult child and all that goes with her. Therefore, I've had a very bumpy ride on the marriage end. With all her medical bills etc, we never feel that we get a break. So going out on a "date" wasn't in the budget. Yes, I know there are free dates.......but I think it's stress and frustration that keeps us from doing the "us" time on a regular basis. (We used to be scared to leave her alone with anyone.) So how do ya'll keep it together?