My heart is aching because I lost my temper and kicked my son out of our house 2 weeks ago. He is high functioning autistic, adhd, depressed and has a narcissistic personality disorder. He has struggled to keep a job, go to college or tech school and have a long term girl friend since 2010 when he graduated from high school. His psychiatrist and therapist say he needs to want to function as a responsible adult and will not unless I back off from enabling him. They told me he may have to hit rock bottom before he realizes he has made choices that have placed him in his current circumstances. Do you have any experience like this with your adult child?