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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 702181" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Robert44, check with your local sheriff about the eviction laws in your state. Here in No. CA. we have to give 30 days notice even if the person is our own child and he/she hasn't paid any rent......it's the law. If you find out the eviction laws and give him the appropriate notice and he still won't leave, my understanding is that you can then have a sheriff escort your son out.</p><p></p><p>As many parents here do, you can give your son the addresses of the local shelters, the food banks and the phone numbers for him to contact social services for food stamps, and medical insurance. Our kids are remarkably resourceful especially when they find themselves living on the streets. </p><p></p><p>Sounds like he's self medicating, another common theme here. You may want to contact NAMI, the National Alliance on Mental illness.......they offer wonderful courses for us parents.....and can possibly give you and your son assistance, guidance, information and support.</p><p></p><p>Support for us parents is essential too.....you might give a 12 step group a chance, many parents here find solace at Al Anon, Narc Anon, or Families Anonymous. And, if you haven't already, read the article on detachment at the bottom of my post here.</p><p></p><p>I remember you too.......I'm sorry it didn't work out as you wanted.......your son is young and hopefully he can make some better choices with a bit of prodding from you (eviction date) and start to learn how to deal with his issues in a healthy way.</p><p></p><p>I'm sorry you are having to deal with this........hang in there.........we're all here for you......</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 702181, member: 13542"] Robert44, check with your local sheriff about the eviction laws in your state. Here in No. CA. we have to give 30 days notice even if the person is our own child and he/she hasn't paid any rent......it's the law. If you find out the eviction laws and give him the appropriate notice and he still won't leave, my understanding is that you can then have a sheriff escort your son out. As many parents here do, you can give your son the addresses of the local shelters, the food banks and the phone numbers for him to contact social services for food stamps, and medical insurance. Our kids are remarkably resourceful especially when they find themselves living on the streets. Sounds like he's self medicating, another common theme here. You may want to contact NAMI, the National Alliance on Mental illness.......they offer wonderful courses for us parents.....and can possibly give you and your son assistance, guidance, information and support. Support for us parents is essential too.....you might give a 12 step group a chance, many parents here find solace at Al Anon, Narc Anon, or Families Anonymous. And, if you haven't already, read the article on detachment at the bottom of my post here. I remember you too.......I'm sorry it didn't work out as you wanted.......your son is young and hopefully he can make some better choices with a bit of prodding from you (eviction date) and start to learn how to deal with his issues in a healthy way. I'm sorry you are having to deal with this........hang in there.........we're all here for you...... [/QUOTE]
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