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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 702195" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Hi Robert44, It may take some time to get him out as you may have to have him evicted. During this time you can prepare. If he is left alone in the house you really might want to consider locking up any valuables you have. I and others here have had to put locks on bedroom doors and also lock things in the trunks of our cars. I caution you with this because if your son is back to smoking pot, where is he getting the money? My son would steal from my husband and I on a regular basis. He was very sneaky about it. If I had 6 twenties in my wallet he would take one. In the beginning I didn't really notice it but once I caught on I made sure to keep track of exactly how much money I had at all times. My son was brazen enough to sneak into our bedroom while we were sleeping and go through my husbands wallet. When our son could not longer steal "cash" from us he took other things of value and pawned them.</p><p>Be on your guard Robert and protect yourself, your home and your family.</p><p></p><p>During this time you can also compile a list of shelters and programs that can help your son.</p><p></p><p>Also, you are not kicking your son out, you are liberating him to take care of himself. He is 19 and is old enough to take care of himself.</p><p></p><p>I appreciate your concerns about how he will manage. You would be amazed at well our adult difficult children manage to survive.</p><p></p><p>You have done all you can to help your son but he is choosing not to help himself.</p><p></p><p>If you have not done so already I suggest your read the article on detachment. Here is the link.</p><p><a href="http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/article-on-detachment.53639/#axzz4OlQvJCdj" target="_blank">http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/article-on-detachment.53639/#axzz4OlQvJCdj</a></p><p></p><p>Hang in there!! We are here for you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 702195, member: 18516"] Hi Robert44, It may take some time to get him out as you may have to have him evicted. During this time you can prepare. If he is left alone in the house you really might want to consider locking up any valuables you have. I and others here have had to put locks on bedroom doors and also lock things in the trunks of our cars. I caution you with this because if your son is back to smoking pot, where is he getting the money? My son would steal from my husband and I on a regular basis. He was very sneaky about it. If I had 6 twenties in my wallet he would take one. In the beginning I didn't really notice it but once I caught on I made sure to keep track of exactly how much money I had at all times. My son was brazen enough to sneak into our bedroom while we were sleeping and go through my husbands wallet. When our son could not longer steal "cash" from us he took other things of value and pawned them. Be on your guard Robert and protect yourself, your home and your family. During this time you can also compile a list of shelters and programs that can help your son. Also, you are not kicking your son out, you are liberating him to take care of himself. He is 19 and is old enough to take care of himself. I appreciate your concerns about how he will manage. You would be amazed at well our adult difficult children manage to survive. You have done all you can to help your son but he is choosing not to help himself. If you have not done so already I suggest your read the article on detachment. Here is the link. [URL]http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/article-on-detachment.53639/#axzz4OlQvJCdj[/URL] Hang in there!! We are here for you. [/QUOTE]
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