I love this site because this is the only place I can say something like this and not feel guilty or have people telling me I'm a bad mom. Kids' dad is taking them for a three day weekend (he has never done this before) because he is taking them to Disneyland on Monday. His boss is paying for the entire family to go. He made absolutely sure I knew his boss was paying for it because right now he is fighting me on child support and he knew I'd be suspicious. Ex absolutely hates Disneyland so we'll see how well he behaves. I so totally needed this time off, especially since the cat issue and all of my anxiety that followed it. I absolutely can't wait until they are gone!