I haven't been about for the last couple of weeks. There was an incident at school/day treatment involving one of kt's peers. This young man accused me of being racist (this accusation came after I asked said young man to no longer call the house). In group this peer blurted out that I'm a racist & kt felt the need to defend me. I'm struggling with this situation because the group leader didn't stop this conversation immediately ~ the accusation was aimed at me, not at kt. Additionally, the young man was allowed to continue on & on in a very angry (& to kt threatening) matter that I asked him not to call because of the color of his skin. Apparently he was allowed to "explore" his anger toward me with kt in the room. She's had 3 major dissociative states including Sunday night where I found kt cowering in the corner of the shower in a very infant like state. ktbug has not been back to school since. I'm now struggling to find a "safe" environment for kt. school district is unwilling to support kt with a one on one para at a different setting. (Moving kt seems to be the only answer at this time ~ kt is terrified of this peer.) school district is threatening truancy charges if kt doesn't return to her "assigned & appropriate" placement I informed school district that kt's mental health was far more important than any truancy issues that may come out of this. This is an insane situation ~ because I asked a young man to quit calling the house I have to move my difficult child to a different setting & young man has pulled the race card & gotten away with it. The card will never be put back in the deck again. This stuff makes me nuts.