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<blockquote data-quote="GStorm" data-source="post: 727901" data-attributes="member: 22414"><p>Well, it is an ongoing process of me dealing with my son. I continue to feel at times that I am losing my mind. Part of it is he starts to show some responsibility and that is when I cave. He continues to lie and I am monitoring whether he makes the car payment. He just got his first full pay check & as far as he is concerned, life is great. I am going to gave to stop the insurance for the car this month, know that he is driving a car that will need to be inspected again for him to get new state plates, & new car insurance. The car is pretty well trashed and he is still oblivious to what else needs to be done ( the right front wheel is on the rim, the catalytic converter needs replacing, etc.) So there is a risk of him getting in an accident, hurting or killing himself or others.I have told him all of this PLUS the expense DMV will charge if he does not gave these things taken care of. If the car was paid for and not in my name, it would ve different, but I know I am just going to have to bite the bullet and LET HIM NOT ME DEAL WITH THE CONSEQUENCES. I mean, really, how many times does he need to be told? So by Feb 20th, I am stopping the insurance. He says he will now be able to make the car payment. I want to make sure it is paid. Do you think I should still get him to deposit the money in my account & have the finance company take it out of my account automatically?</p><p> When I talk to my son on the phone, everyrhing sounds reasonable and I start to cave & believe that THIS TIME, he will take care if it....but I am leary. I think that is a good thing dont y'all?</p><p>GStorm</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="GStorm, post: 727901, member: 22414"] Well, it is an ongoing process of me dealing with my son. I continue to feel at times that I am losing my mind. Part of it is he starts to show some responsibility and that is when I cave. He continues to lie and I am monitoring whether he makes the car payment. He just got his first full pay check & as far as he is concerned, life is great. I am going to gave to stop the insurance for the car this month, know that he is driving a car that will need to be inspected again for him to get new state plates, & new car insurance. The car is pretty well trashed and he is still oblivious to what else needs to be done ( the right front wheel is on the rim, the catalytic converter needs replacing, etc.) So there is a risk of him getting in an accident, hurting or killing himself or others.I have told him all of this PLUS the expense DMV will charge if he does not gave these things taken care of. If the car was paid for and not in my name, it would ve different, but I know I am just going to have to bite the bullet and LET HIM NOT ME DEAL WITH THE CONSEQUENCES. I mean, really, how many times does he need to be told? So by Feb 20th, I am stopping the insurance. He says he will now be able to make the car payment. I want to make sure it is paid. Do you think I should still get him to deposit the money in my account & have the finance company take it out of my account automatically? When I talk to my son on the phone, everyrhing sounds reasonable and I start to cave & believe that THIS TIME, he will take care if it....but I am leary. I think that is a good thing dont y'all? GStorm [/QUOTE]
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