I had to pick up DD1 from school today. She was having a first class meltdown. She hasn't had any issues whatsoever since September, I think? It dawned on me that we're coming to the end of the school year (only one week left here) and the transition to school letting out has begun. So it dawns on me that DD1 has a hard time with the BIG transitions, like starting school, ending school (the year, not the days), moving, going on vacation, long day trips to my Dad's. Son NEVER had problems with these. Moving was an adventure for him, starting stopping school was fun, etc. He had problems with the small transitions like changes in schedule, change of plans, needing to leave a place before he feels ready. Anyone else have a child who is selective in what types of transitions they are going to have difficulty with?