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<blockquote data-quote="GuideMe" data-source="post: 636415" data-attributes="member: 18233"><p>What if after all of this, he winds up leaving you after all the children are grown up and out of the house? I have heard so many stories of this happening. Just picture yourself writing in a forum 10 years from now saying:</p><p></p><p> "I helped raised his out of control kids, was abused by them, had to through courts, cps and went through pure hell because of his kids, and my husband is now deciding to leave me. Had I known then, what I knew now, I would never have put myself through that especially just to get abandoned in the end. Those years are now lost in space". </p><p></p><p>You've already went through this, and yes he helped you with your difficult child, but your difficult child is an adult, very temporary situation. Did anyone help you raise him like you are helping raise his kids, which is more than one by the way? Please don't take my advice as harsh. Obviously I care about you enough to offer a different perspective because I don't think you deserve this. Just something to think about.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="GuideMe, post: 636415, member: 18233"] What if after all of this, he winds up leaving you after all the children are grown up and out of the house? I have heard so many stories of this happening. Just picture yourself writing in a forum 10 years from now saying: "I helped raised his out of control kids, was abused by them, had to through courts, cps and went through pure hell because of his kids, and my husband is now deciding to leave me. Had I known then, what I knew now, I would never have put myself through that especially just to get abandoned in the end. Those years are now lost in space". You've already went through this, and yes he helped you with your difficult child, but your difficult child is an adult, very temporary situation. Did anyone help you raise him like you are helping raise his kids, which is more than one by the way? Please don't take my advice as harsh. Obviously I care about you enough to offer a different perspective because I don't think you deserve this. Just something to think about. [/QUOTE]
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