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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 654121" data-attributes="member: 4152"><p>Thank you very much....as I have that horrible sinking feeling at the moment. I hate hate hate to feel hopeless, but that is exactly what I feel. She is bipolar all the way, but one doctor thought mild aspergers too. I'm very unsure of that, but her social skills suxxxxk. When she had the brain aneurysm, as well, I spent at least a year in"darkness." I just couldn't understand how my / our Higher Being could bring that to her as she was already so mentally sick and had the baggage of adoption. The situation went from bad to hideous. And yes, I would agree that after the brain aneurysm, things just worsened in all areas.</p><p></p><p>I hesitate to talk details about what's going on as there is a hearing coming up and likely other legal things.</p><p></p><p>But, difficult child is clearly the victim in both cases I have mentioned. I ASSURE you I'm NOT a mom that closes her eyes to things.</p><p></p><p>But just looking at the recent event...OMG! This so called friend and her argued in public, there was a misunderstanding, and then this big time Difficult Child called my daughter a very filthy word (think of the dirtiest word you can imagine), then physically attacked her BIG TIME to the point that it very well might be construed as attempted murder. Someone intervened and the police were called. One detective made it very clear that as far as he/she could tell, our difficult child was innocent and charges should be filed....</p><p></p><p> I found out it wasn't too long before this that the very big time Difficult Child, had mildly assaulted my daughter not too long ago over a different disagreement.</p><p></p><p>So, she definitely gives the wrong people too many chances.</p><p></p><p>And, although she is better, she can be sarastic with us. Believe me, I'm grateful this has improved. </p><p></p><p>She gets nervous and says the weirdest things...but I think this is part of her illnesses.</p><p></p><p>And yes, bullies prey on her repeatedly.</p><p></p><p></p><p>But, I'll never understand why she isn't more grateful. Her IQ is fairly good and it is rare that she seems to pick up on all that we do for her and how much heartache all this causes us. But, then again, I suppose if she fully acknowledged it all, maybe it would be too much for her to take in.</p><p></p><p>I wish I could provide more details.</p><p></p><p>I'm very sad this moment.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 654121, member: 4152"] Thank you very much....as I have that horrible sinking feeling at the moment. I hate hate hate to feel hopeless, but that is exactly what I feel. She is bipolar all the way, but one doctor thought mild aspergers too. I'm very unsure of that, but her social skills suxxxxk. When she had the brain aneurysm, as well, I spent at least a year in"darkness." I just couldn't understand how my / our Higher Being could bring that to her as she was already so mentally sick and had the baggage of adoption. The situation went from bad to hideous. And yes, I would agree that after the brain aneurysm, things just worsened in all areas. I hesitate to talk details about what's going on as there is a hearing coming up and likely other legal things. But, difficult child is clearly the victim in both cases I have mentioned. I ASSURE you I'm NOT a mom that closes her eyes to things. But just looking at the recent event...OMG! This so called friend and her argued in public, there was a misunderstanding, and then this big time Difficult Child called my daughter a very filthy word (think of the dirtiest word you can imagine), then physically attacked her BIG TIME to the point that it very well might be construed as attempted murder. Someone intervened and the police were called. One detective made it very clear that as far as he/she could tell, our difficult child was innocent and charges should be filed.... I found out it wasn't too long before this that the very big time Difficult Child, had mildly assaulted my daughter not too long ago over a different disagreement. So, she definitely gives the wrong people too many chances. And, although she is better, she can be sarastic with us. Believe me, I'm grateful this has improved. She gets nervous and says the weirdest things...but I think this is part of her illnesses. And yes, bullies prey on her repeatedly. But, I'll never understand why she isn't more grateful. Her IQ is fairly good and it is rare that she seems to pick up on all that we do for her and how much heartache all this causes us. But, then again, I suppose if she fully acknowledged it all, maybe it would be too much for her to take in. I wish I could provide more details. I'm very sad this moment. [/QUOTE]
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