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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 656496" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>I did that where our son was concerned.</p><p></p><p>Not the part about leaving the car running. </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>This is a good, intentional thing. I will do this with the intention of realizing that I need to let go. That I need to plumb the depths of the feelings right down to that hurt little place inside, clear them, and let go. Whether we feel ready or not we are modeling behavior and thought patterns and oh, pretty much everything, for those in our lives.</p><p></p><p>We all are doing this for one another.</p><p></p><p>We can commit to being clear, within.</p><p></p><p>Clear as glass.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>And when this happens, the person is able to reclaim his or her own strength and integrity and purpose.</p><p></p><p>There is no gratitude in it for us.</p><p></p><p>They have done it themselves, and that is where strength is.</p><p></p><p>In doing it yourself.</p><p></p><p>Efficacy, not fear.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Or maybe, it is exactly perfect; maybe, there is a purpose here we cannot recognize because our lives are finite things.</p><p></p><p>Maybe what I mean is that we have taken the hellish waste of it and made ourselves grow through and beyond where we were.</p><p></p><p>We have been strong, and our children have been strong, and we are coming through it, and maybe that is all I know.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 656496, member: 17461"] I did that where our son was concerned. Not the part about leaving the car running. This is a good, intentional thing. I will do this with the intention of realizing that I need to let go. That I need to plumb the depths of the feelings right down to that hurt little place inside, clear them, and let go. Whether we feel ready or not we are modeling behavior and thought patterns and oh, pretty much everything, for those in our lives. We all are doing this for one another. We can commit to being clear, within. Clear as glass. And when this happens, the person is able to reclaim his or her own strength and integrity and purpose. There is no gratitude in it for us. They have done it themselves, and that is where strength is. In doing it yourself. Efficacy, not fear. Or maybe, it is exactly perfect; maybe, there is a purpose here we cannot recognize because our lives are finite things. Maybe what I mean is that we have taken the hellish waste of it and made ourselves grow through and beyond where we were. We have been strong, and our children have been strong, and we are coming through it, and maybe that is all I know. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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