Myson is looking at the possibility of jail time this next Tues. if he doesnt cough up the money he owes, to a tune of 1950.00. He has to pay it all or be put in jail. He came to me and I said NO. He went to my parents for the second time, and they said Yes , and that this was it. So they overnighted the money.This chikd support is one county for the twins.
Well then he calls me last night and is told from the other county that his daughter is through ( all the same Mom) that they will be taking his driver lisc. away in 10 days if he doesnt pay what he owes on that , which is 1500.00. He told me he can pay my parents back the money he opwes with this partime newspaper job he will be doing before his real job. That he doesnt have the money to pay her support , and that his lisc will be revoked and he wont be able to keep either job. I would not give hime the money. What I did do was call the children service in that county. They were able to tel me that what he is saying is true about his lisc. They also told me the fulltime job he says and tells everyone he has is not true. He went to this job in June, and lasted a 1/2 day. He even has his wife lying for him, togehter. They did verify the news paper job. Talked with legal and I asked what does he need to do to keep his lisc for this job. He needs to pay the amt. Dont have that kind of money. She finally agreed to monthly payment. I will pay this month and next month, because I helped out our easy child daughter, and that is it. Gives him time to even get a better job. I am not telling him this, cause he can just sweat it out, and still think he needs to contribute. So I told my parents and they cannot beleive how the 2 of them sat in front of them the other eve. and bold face lie, I said, I can.
Have also spoken with daughter in law mother. She is somewhat up to date with all that is going on. Her question is he showed up at their house with 800.00, and wonders if he isnt working where is he getting his money. My son smokes cigarettes, but now aware of drugs, and doesnt basically drink alcohol, and heis legal to do that. My parents said that the house has moldy dishes just like it was with ex fiance, adn we all kow what happen to them, and loosing custody of his daughter. The mother in law also told me that the cops have been at their house for 2 things, he has his wife protecting him for messing with a bb gun that did accidentaly go off, and broke a house window, The other was the month before a call to his house/ apt for a suicide attempt! He has his body pretty skinny, and a bundle of nerves. What does a person Do?
Jen
Well then he calls me last night and is told from the other county that his daughter is through ( all the same Mom) that they will be taking his driver lisc. away in 10 days if he doesnt pay what he owes on that , which is 1500.00. He told me he can pay my parents back the money he opwes with this partime newspaper job he will be doing before his real job. That he doesnt have the money to pay her support , and that his lisc will be revoked and he wont be able to keep either job. I would not give hime the money. What I did do was call the children service in that county. They were able to tel me that what he is saying is true about his lisc. They also told me the fulltime job he says and tells everyone he has is not true. He went to this job in June, and lasted a 1/2 day. He even has his wife lying for him, togehter. They did verify the news paper job. Talked with legal and I asked what does he need to do to keep his lisc for this job. He needs to pay the amt. Dont have that kind of money. She finally agreed to monthly payment. I will pay this month and next month, because I helped out our easy child daughter, and that is it. Gives him time to even get a better job. I am not telling him this, cause he can just sweat it out, and still think he needs to contribute. So I told my parents and they cannot beleive how the 2 of them sat in front of them the other eve. and bold face lie, I said, I can.
Have also spoken with daughter in law mother. She is somewhat up to date with all that is going on. Her question is he showed up at their house with 800.00, and wonders if he isnt working where is he getting his money. My son smokes cigarettes, but now aware of drugs, and doesnt basically drink alcohol, and heis legal to do that. My parents said that the house has moldy dishes just like it was with ex fiance, adn we all kow what happen to them, and loosing custody of his daughter. The mother in law also told me that the cops have been at their house for 2 things, he has his wife protecting him for messing with a bb gun that did accidentaly go off, and broke a house window, The other was the month before a call to his house/ apt for a suicide attempt! He has his body pretty skinny, and a bundle of nerves. What does a person Do?
Jen
