Just a small update. Life is good. My friends are keeping me busy. I am very happy with my choice to leave. I'm still getting my finances straight, but other than being broke, I am good. I spend a lot of time on the beach. I go out with my girlfriends and visit lots. I enjoy my little apt. although I still need a lot of "stuff." Living with Jana without her father treating her like she is 12 is nice. She is a delight---most of the time----she does her thing, I do mine. We do things together. husband is slowly getting the picture. He is hanging out in the bars nightly---of course they are all within walking distance of my apt. If I go out, I have people who call and let me know where he is, so I can go else where. Just wanted to let you know that I'm doing well.