well so far so good. so different i'll say that. she hasnt' come after me as of yet. i think she's also ignoring him so doesn't realize yet she's been blocked. he hasnt' lifted block yet we'll see how long he makes it.
yet yesterday we had kids, and no texts, no harrassing, just fine. he said at end of day look at that usually her and i would text all day to achieve what occured which is me getting kids, the overnight bag, dropping stepson at his rehearsal he's in a play (very cute). i said well remember that when she catches on and the guilt hits you.......
on another note he's having problems. i told him yesterday i think your depressed. i'm watching you past few mos. you never smile, your always irritable, your impulsive, you just kinda drag yourself around, you sleep most of time kids are here on monday and wednesday. which is a new thing, he was always up playing football with stepson in street, softball with all the kids.
lately he just sleeps says i dont' feel well and i'm manning the kids. he's normally cooking dinner etc. lately i've been cooking. his angry alot of the time, losing temper easily.
i'm like oh sheesh everyone in my home is a wreck it seems. difficult child is just difficult child always, easy child is all over board, now him too? i actually told him i want youto go on a medication. i'm normally not a big medication person yet way he's been acting i didn't even think to notice because well alot else giong on......
him and i have always clashed we're so different. yet at same time we always found our way. his increased neediness, quietness, tired all the time, and i mean totally not smiling at all, minimal. its creepy. not cooking dinner, just sleeping in bed.
yesterday i ran to store he was sleeping i said wake up to watch kids. i come back he's still sleeping my kids are outside (their all old enough) and their chasing our dog that got out (first time since i returned home).
so he has therapy tmrw he said he'll address it with therapist. if it's not one thing it's another.......
yet yesterday we had kids, and no texts, no harrassing, just fine. he said at end of day look at that usually her and i would text all day to achieve what occured which is me getting kids, the overnight bag, dropping stepson at his rehearsal he's in a play (very cute). i said well remember that when she catches on and the guilt hits you.......
on another note he's having problems. i told him yesterday i think your depressed. i'm watching you past few mos. you never smile, your always irritable, your impulsive, you just kinda drag yourself around, you sleep most of time kids are here on monday and wednesday. which is a new thing, he was always up playing football with stepson in street, softball with all the kids.
lately he just sleeps says i dont' feel well and i'm manning the kids. he's normally cooking dinner etc. lately i've been cooking. his angry alot of the time, losing temper easily.
i'm like oh sheesh everyone in my home is a wreck it seems. difficult child is just difficult child always, easy child is all over board, now him too? i actually told him i want youto go on a medication. i'm normally not a big medication person yet way he's been acting i didn't even think to notice because well alot else giong on......
him and i have always clashed we're so different. yet at same time we always found our way. his increased neediness, quietness, tired all the time, and i mean totally not smiling at all, minimal. its creepy. not cooking dinner, just sleeping in bed.
yesterday i ran to store he was sleeping i said wake up to watch kids. i come back he's still sleeping my kids are outside (their all old enough) and their chasing our dog that got out (first time since i returned home).
so he has therapy tmrw he said he'll address it with therapist. if it's not one thing it's another.......