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<blockquote data-quote="BloodiedButUnbowed" data-source="post: 723233" data-attributes="member: 13303"><p>LBL your question is one I share. There is nothing that can be done. The fact that YS' attempt has driven everyone further apart, instead of closer together, speaks for itself. The worst part is that each parent and the grandmother are only thinking of themselves. Nobody is considering YS' safety, health, welfare, or needs. He is a true lost child. </p><p></p><p>If I could legally get custody and move away with him, I would, but I cannot. All I can do is offer my love, understanding, and support. I have always done that and will continue to do so. I doubt he will reach out to me in this way as he used to do when he was younger, because in his young mind I've failed him due to my allegiance to my wife. This dysfunctional family system, full of hatred between my wife and her ex-husband, goes way deeper than me. I cannot escape from it and unfortunately, neither can he.</p><p></p><p>YS is aligned very closely to his father. No way will he disassociate from him. It is us he will disassociate from. </p><p></p><p>We received word today his release from the hospital is imminent. Such good news but it is tinged with anxiety and sadness. We don't know what happens from here. Grandma is not on speaking terms with either parent as of today.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BloodiedButUnbowed, post: 723233, member: 13303"] LBL your question is one I share. There is nothing that can be done. The fact that YS' attempt has driven everyone further apart, instead of closer together, speaks for itself. The worst part is that each parent and the grandmother are only thinking of themselves. Nobody is considering YS' safety, health, welfare, or needs. He is a true lost child. If I could legally get custody and move away with him, I would, but I cannot. All I can do is offer my love, understanding, and support. I have always done that and will continue to do so. I doubt he will reach out to me in this way as he used to do when he was younger, because in his young mind I've failed him due to my allegiance to my wife. This dysfunctional family system, full of hatred between my wife and her ex-husband, goes way deeper than me. I cannot escape from it and unfortunately, neither can he. YS is aligned very closely to his father. No way will he disassociate from him. It is us he will disassociate from. We received word today his release from the hospital is imminent. Such good news but it is tinged with anxiety and sadness. We don't know what happens from here. Grandma is not on speaking terms with either parent as of today. [/QUOTE]
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