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<blockquote data-quote="BloodiedButUnbowed" data-source="post: 723430" data-attributes="member: 13303"><p>Believe it or not things have gotten worse since my last update.</p><p></p><p>YS announced that he intends to return to his father and that he hates both me and my wife. He brought up my and wife's argument from last Mother's Day, the last time he tried to spend the night with us, the night he snuck out of the house, as if it was the penultimate example of child abuse (it was a bad argument, but it was hardly what he made it out to be, and the night it happened I tried to talk to him about it and apologized for my part in it, and the fact that he overheard it). He raised all kinds of complaints about his mother and about me. The poor child is confused, and upset, and just wants to return to his home, and he is being pulled in all directions by the adults in his life. </p><p></p><p>Grandma and his father got into such a heated argument about where YS would go once discharged, that they caused a scene at the hospital. YS witnessed at least some of this. Meanwhile, earlier in the morning, Grandma cursed out my wife, who happens to be her daughter, using the foulest language you can imagine.</p><p></p><p>This is even worse than Jerry Springer. I feel so badly for YS. I don't take his tirade personally. There is not enough room in his young life, dominated by strife and domestic violence, to have a positive relationship with his father as well as his mother, or anyone associated with her. His grandmother is the exception, but she really is evil incarnate. </p><p></p><p>I am so blessed by my family of origin and I feel so awful for wife and YS.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BloodiedButUnbowed, post: 723430, member: 13303"] Believe it or not things have gotten worse since my last update. YS announced that he intends to return to his father and that he hates both me and my wife. He brought up my and wife's argument from last Mother's Day, the last time he tried to spend the night with us, the night he snuck out of the house, as if it was the penultimate example of child abuse (it was a bad argument, but it was hardly what he made it out to be, and the night it happened I tried to talk to him about it and apologized for my part in it, and the fact that he overheard it). He raised all kinds of complaints about his mother and about me. The poor child is confused, and upset, and just wants to return to his home, and he is being pulled in all directions by the adults in his life. Grandma and his father got into such a heated argument about where YS would go once discharged, that they caused a scene at the hospital. YS witnessed at least some of this. Meanwhile, earlier in the morning, Grandma cursed out my wife, who happens to be her daughter, using the foulest language you can imagine. This is even worse than Jerry Springer. I feel so badly for YS. I don't take his tirade personally. There is not enough room in his young life, dominated by strife and domestic violence, to have a positive relationship with his father as well as his mother, or anyone associated with her. His grandmother is the exception, but she really is evil incarnate. I am so blessed by my family of origin and I feel so awful for wife and YS. [/QUOTE]
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