I am one of those crazy list makers. Sometimes making a list just helps me. So this is mostly just for me to do to help me with- all of this. I don't want to bombard you all with- posts. But I am kind of in a posting mood and have lots on my mind tonight. So I will make a list of all of the things E does that is either concerning to me or has been brought up by teachers/therapists. Explosive meltdowns Does not relate to kids his own age (this was first brought up by daycare when he was almost 4) Would rather talk to adults (also brought up by daycare) Does Not focus on tasks unless very interested. Cannot sit for very long at all fidgets constantly twists clothing and blankets while trying to fall asleep Does not make eye contact when talking. He can make eye contact but you have to tell him constantly to LOOK AT ME Obsessed over the color Green ----freaks out if he gets any other color in anything. wears green every day Has a hard time taking turns or waiting his turn in line Has a hard time socially. Any social setting he struggles in. He always wants to have playdates at our house but ends up in his room playing a video game instead of playing with- his friend. He wants to play but does not seem to know exactly how to play appropriately. He either freaks out because no one follows his rules or he gets overly excited and is hard to control. Moves hand in front of face while talking. Says that he is writing while talking? Says some pretty hurtful things when upset always regrets or actually does not remember saying it a lot of times. Gross motor skills are pretty bad as are a lot of fine motor skills. He is very very smart. All of his teachers have told me that he is one of the brightest kids but lacks the social skills and maturity for his age. Does not participate in group activities at all Has a hard time transitioning or stopping something before completely finished if he is super focused on doing it. Changes bother him. ---like re arranging furniture I feel like I am forgetting something...but this is just what came to mind right off.