JackBeNimble
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I believe Mr. Williams has the same brain problem as my four family members. The worst is my 46 year old daughter. It began when she was about fourteen years of age and she has continually gotten worse. She changes actual events to make her look like the innocent one. She has never been married because her boy friends find out she's nuts eventually. In addition to changing the facts about past events she attacks people physically. She has attacked me numerous times and she is banned from ever entering my house. Little things set her off and she goes into a violent tirade. She last attacked me in rush hour traffic going 50 miles an hour because I said in innocent conversation that a person might think she's crazy. I almost lost control of my truck before getting the truck stopped.
The problem is she tells everybody in the family horrible stories about me which are not true. She turned the attack on me into an attack on her. The only person in our family that knew the truth was a cousin that dealt with people with mental problems. I asked the cousin a few years ago if she could talk to her and find out anything. My daughter admitted to her that she was telling lies and promised to stop. Unfortunately the cousin was killed in an accident less than a year ago and now my daughter has started the lies all over again.
Her two brothers are 10 and 14 years younger and are believing her wild stories to the point I no longer talk to any of them. How do you fight lies?
My wife is no help what so ever as I believe she is the genetic link to this problem. She has little memory of her childhood which to me is very strange. She came from a very good family and went to private schools. She was a spoiled child as she never had to do anything as there were hired maids that did the housework. The problems started when my children became teenagers as my wife didn't discipline them. I refused to let my sons get away with things and gave them chores to do like mow the lawn and take out the garbage.
Things became much better when my daughter left for college. I took a job in the Midwest and we moved 700 miles from the East. Unfortunately my daughter followed and the lies and craziness began again. I have forgiven her hundreds of times but now I'm done. I have banned all three of my children from coming to my house and have found out my oldest son has been stealing things from my house. He now seems as nuts as his older sister. My only hope was my youngest son that was married two years ago and we had a good relationship. He always had a memory problem and could never remember his multiplication tables. He is far from being dumb but has always lacked focus in his studies in school. The lack of a good memory has always frustrated him but he did manage to get through college after six years.
I find all of this troubling as I remember everything including when I was a little baby with diapers. Since retiring I have written six books, taught myself electrical engineering to the point of advising grad students from all over the world. I didn't know how to focus until I was 37 years old as I was bored to the extreme in school. It was too easy and I'd read the book before a test and ace the test. My childhood wasn't the best as only one person in my whole family was what I'd call intelligent. He was my paternal grandfather and he taught me many things. We talked about the others in our family and their lack of intelligence including his son and my father. He didn't understand it either and only said that we were the lucky two and don't put the others down because they are not like us. It has been difficult to say the least to live with people all my life that I consider nuts or at best incompetent.
The question is how do I convince my youngest son that his sister and brother are nuts and the stories they are telling him are all lies?
The problem is she tells everybody in the family horrible stories about me which are not true. She turned the attack on me into an attack on her. The only person in our family that knew the truth was a cousin that dealt with people with mental problems. I asked the cousin a few years ago if she could talk to her and find out anything. My daughter admitted to her that she was telling lies and promised to stop. Unfortunately the cousin was killed in an accident less than a year ago and now my daughter has started the lies all over again.
Her two brothers are 10 and 14 years younger and are believing her wild stories to the point I no longer talk to any of them. How do you fight lies?
My wife is no help what so ever as I believe she is the genetic link to this problem. She has little memory of her childhood which to me is very strange. She came from a very good family and went to private schools. She was a spoiled child as she never had to do anything as there were hired maids that did the housework. The problems started when my children became teenagers as my wife didn't discipline them. I refused to let my sons get away with things and gave them chores to do like mow the lawn and take out the garbage.
Things became much better when my daughter left for college. I took a job in the Midwest and we moved 700 miles from the East. Unfortunately my daughter followed and the lies and craziness began again. I have forgiven her hundreds of times but now I'm done. I have banned all three of my children from coming to my house and have found out my oldest son has been stealing things from my house. He now seems as nuts as his older sister. My only hope was my youngest son that was married two years ago and we had a good relationship. He always had a memory problem and could never remember his multiplication tables. He is far from being dumb but has always lacked focus in his studies in school. The lack of a good memory has always frustrated him but he did manage to get through college after six years.
I find all of this troubling as I remember everything including when I was a little baby with diapers. Since retiring I have written six books, taught myself electrical engineering to the point of advising grad students from all over the world. I didn't know how to focus until I was 37 years old as I was bored to the extreme in school. It was too easy and I'd read the book before a test and ace the test. My childhood wasn't the best as only one person in my whole family was what I'd call intelligent. He was my paternal grandfather and he taught me many things. We talked about the others in our family and their lack of intelligence including his son and my father. He didn't understand it either and only said that we were the lucky two and don't put the others down because they are not like us. It has been difficult to say the least to live with people all my life that I consider nuts or at best incompetent.
The question is how do I convince my youngest son that his sister and brother are nuts and the stories they are telling him are all lies?