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<blockquote data-quote="mof" data-source="post: 710863" data-attributes="member: 20533"><p>Welcome and sorry. Our son has the same diagnosis, it is not an excuse but an issue to be dealt with. But, he has to want help for it. it is not your job to make him happy....ITS HIS JOB TO FIND HAPPINESS AND WANT TO BE BETTER.</p><p></p><p>I say this strongly because many of us has been there. Our son now works full-time, just got a big promotion HE wanted, handles his responsibilities like an adult. Yes, he lives with us, but guess what!? He is pleasant and a help to us!</p><p></p><p>Deep down you know he has to comply for help...media action helps our son very much, but his attitude help s more.</p><p></p><p>I would not give him money...None. He wAnts to smoke weed, get a job. He gets arrested...it sup to him to pay the price...I would start some tough love in small doses until you are ready to draw some boundaries for yourself and your husband.</p><p></p><p>Please take care of you, your marriage...are there other children?</p><p></p><p>Hugs...we get it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mof, post: 710863, member: 20533"] Welcome and sorry. Our son has the same diagnosis, it is not an excuse but an issue to be dealt with. But, he has to want help for it. it is not your job to make him happy....ITS HIS JOB TO FIND HAPPINESS AND WANT TO BE BETTER. I say this strongly because many of us has been there. Our son now works full-time, just got a big promotion HE wanted, handles his responsibilities like an adult. Yes, he lives with us, but guess what!? He is pleasant and a help to us! Deep down you know he has to comply for help...media action helps our son very much, but his attitude help s more. I would not give him money...None. He wAnts to smoke weed, get a job. He gets arrested...it sup to him to pay the price...I would start some tough love in small doses until you are ready to draw some boundaries for yourself and your husband. Please take care of you, your marriage...are there other children? Hugs...we get it. [/QUOTE]
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