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<blockquote data-quote="Janna" data-source="post: 58698" data-attributes="member: 2737"><p>Well, I'll be perfectly honest with ya. Stop arguing with your kid. She's 6. You're the parent. She's the kid.</p><p></p><p>I had alot of success with charts and rewards. I'd go through the whole shabang here, but well, I type it all up and 99% of the people dont read it anyway LOL! So, if you'd like advice on that, I'd be happy to give it, PM me.</p><p></p><p>You picked two rules. Those are the two things you are working on. You put them on the chart. You offer the reward for abiding, if there is one, and you CLEARLY STATE the consequence with the chart, and that's it. There's no argument. She does what she's supposed to do, she wins, she doesn't, she doesn't. No arguing. Ignore her. Charts DO NOT work in a week. Nor two. Nor three. They take time and patience. Your kid didn't learn to NOT listen in a week. She's not going to learn to listen in a week.</p><p></p><p>As for the nosy neighbor, tell her to bite the big one. Kindly tell her to mind her own darn business.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Janna, post: 58698, member: 2737"] Well, I'll be perfectly honest with ya. Stop arguing with your kid. She's 6. You're the parent. She's the kid. I had alot of success with charts and rewards. I'd go through the whole shabang here, but well, I type it all up and 99% of the people dont read it anyway LOL! So, if you'd like advice on that, I'd be happy to give it, PM me. You picked two rules. Those are the two things you are working on. You put them on the chart. You offer the reward for abiding, if there is one, and you CLEARLY STATE the consequence with the chart, and that's it. There's no argument. She does what she's supposed to do, she wins, she doesn't, she doesn't. No arguing. Ignore her. Charts DO NOT work in a week. Nor two. Nor three. They take time and patience. Your kid didn't learn to NOT listen in a week. She's not going to learn to listen in a week. As for the nosy neighbor, tell her to bite the big one. Kindly tell her to mind her own darn business. [/QUOTE]
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