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<blockquote data-quote="Kjs" data-source="post: 58705"><p>I totally understand. you are sucked into their arguments, and so angry that by the time you realize you just got sucked into a 6 year olds argument it is half over. Unfortunately I get sucked in and not even realise it until after. Then there are the times I am so angry I would leave and got to a neighbors (they know me and difficult child) and just tell them I need a time out before I lose it with him. He then calls there looking for me because I left him home alone. I don't stay long, just long enough. It is so hard to NOT get sucked in. difficult child's have such an amazing way. I would tell your neighbor or anyone else who wants to tattle, that you know what she is doing, thank you. Then after the neighbor leaves call her in. If she does something and neighbor feels it is there part to tell you, I would say, Thank you, I'll handle it. Or simply tell them if she is doing something where she will get hurt I appreciate you coming and telling me, however if she is not getting hurt, or hurting anyone, I'll handle it.</p><p></p><p>Hope you both are calmed down. It's rough. It'll be better.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kjs, post: 58705"] I totally understand. you are sucked into their arguments, and so angry that by the time you realize you just got sucked into a 6 year olds argument it is half over. Unfortunately I get sucked in and not even realise it until after. Then there are the times I am so angry I would leave and got to a neighbors (they know me and difficult child) and just tell them I need a time out before I lose it with him. He then calls there looking for me because I left him home alone. I don't stay long, just long enough. It is so hard to NOT get sucked in. difficult child's have such an amazing way. I would tell your neighbor or anyone else who wants to tattle, that you know what she is doing, thank you. Then after the neighbor leaves call her in. If she does something and neighbor feels it is there part to tell you, I would say, Thank you, I'll handle it. Or simply tell them if she is doing something where she will get hurt I appreciate you coming and telling me, however if she is not getting hurt, or hurting anyone, I'll handle it. Hope you both are calmed down. It's rough. It'll be better. [/QUOTE]
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