Nichole signed into her yahoo messenger yesterday. Among her list of contacts are her sibs, and K's husband. Well.........um.........let's just say Nichole got quite a shock. Seems K's husband was logged on and his profile pick was a nude photo of himself! Soon as he saw Nichole logged on, he switched it over to his normal avitar. But not before she'd reared up from the computer with a "What the hades!!" It was during school hours so neither Kayla nor Alex would have been there. And I'm guessing K wasn't there either. Wow. I asked Nichole if she was going to tell K. At the time she said no. So I dunno if she will or not. I'm iffy as far as telling her because it didn't happen to me. Forget liking the guy. He gives me the creeps to the nth degree. I give up. difficult child or not, he's got some mega serious issues concerning sex going on. I'm sorry. I just don't see why K is still with him. I just don't get it. I shudder everytime I get a video from the kids from him because he always has to be in it. And it's never a pleasant presence, he's either doing or saying something off the wall. I hate it when he speaks because I can barely understand a word he says and he shouts. ( so maybe losing his hearing too?) Low IQ, can't read/write. Now evidently doesn't want to work. ( I strongly suspect this has been an ongoing issue) No teeth.....or barely any. Hooked on porn and talking to naked women online. (this is from K herself) He's 40 and she's not even 30..........and I swear to God I just shake my head and ask myself what can she possibly see in the guy??? He sent me another video tonight. I hesitated to open it. But I did. It was him........Lordy. All him. I had to turn the volume up all the way to figure out what he was saying. Seems K's bioMom got ticked because K wouldn't loan her some money.....and started berating K about how she doesn't do anything right........And K, who's been having a rough time of late, got so upset she nearly headed for the ER. K's husband was trying to alert me that she might have to go to hospital and was afraid I wouldn't be able to decipher an email written by him. I don't get it. K isn't unattractive. She's smart. And granted I'm on the outside looking in, but I just don't see how she can possibly love him. I dunno. I think about how she was raised........and it just doesn't make sense. I refuse to let myself think of K's prognosis because the thought of the grands being raised alone by this man churns my stomach. Oh, and evidently cps concluded the picture of Kayla was "innocent". sigh I call the grands tomorrow evening. Hopefully venting will make it easier to try to enjoy talking with K and the kids with him hollering unintelligible nonsense in the back ground. ugh!