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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 673014" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Hi K,</p><p>It will get better for us, I really do believe it will. It has been so many years down this road, so change is not always easy. In the end all, the process is our own, each situation is unique.</p><p>I too am very thankful to have found CD. It is indeed, a soft place to land for battle weary parents.</p><p>It is sad, but also a comfort to know we are not alone in our journey.</p><p>Most of what I share is due to that comfort I have found here, and the gentle guidance of those here, who have come further down the path than I.</p><p>Thank you Kalahou, for your words of encouragement. I am thankful to be close in space and place with you as well. It is difficult with the cultural norms to be where we are in our decisions to give our d cs their wings. We not only go against our nurture nature, but also against our kins propensity to hang on to the notion that we not only should, but we <em>must</em> continue to try to "help" our adult children.</p><p>I thank you Kalahou, from the bottom of my heart for your good wishes and words towards my daughters and my hearts peace. Likewise, I return those sentiments for you and your son, for peace and blessings on this journey. Mahalo nui loa for your kokua.</p><p>Malama pono</p><p>leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 673014, member: 19522"] Hi K, It will get better for us, I really do believe it will. It has been so many years down this road, so change is not always easy. In the end all, the process is our own, each situation is unique. I too am very thankful to have found CD. It is indeed, a soft place to land for battle weary parents. It is sad, but also a comfort to know we are not alone in our journey. Most of what I share is due to that comfort I have found here, and the gentle guidance of those here, who have come further down the path than I. Thank you Kalahou, for your words of encouragement. I am thankful to be close in space and place with you as well. It is difficult with the cultural norms to be where we are in our decisions to give our d cs their wings. We not only go against our nurture nature, but also against our kins propensity to hang on to the notion that we not only should, but we [I]must[/I] continue to try to "help" our adult children. I thank you Kalahou, from the bottom of my heart for your good wishes and words towards my daughters and my hearts peace. Likewise, I return those sentiments for you and your son, for peace and blessings on this journey. Mahalo nui loa for your kokua. Malama pono leafy [/QUOTE]
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