Yesterday was a bad day to say the least. First of all I got a call from difficult child's IOP counselor. She said difficult child failed his drug test. He got a 10 for THC. A month ago when he entered inpatient I think it was 100, but they said it was negative when he left the program last week. Therefore, in their opinion, he used marijuana. They said he can't come back to IOP because he used right after inpatient. He hasn't left the house except to go to and from school with his teacher and doesn't leave campus. No one comes to the house either. He completely denies using. He said THC is stored in the fatty tissues and that it could be that he worked out the day he was tested and didn't drink any water. In the past, he's been very honest about his use. I've left my purse out with money to see if he would steal from me and he's never even done that. What do you guys think? In the past when he used after being at a negative level, his results went up way more than a 10. To top it off, as soon as I got off the phone with the counselor, difficult child's teacher called and was very upset. difficult child stayed after school to help the teacher clean the classroom and when they went outside a boy who also attends school there had rounded up two car loads of boys to help him beat up difficult child. The teacher got difficult child back inside, threatened to call 911 if they didn't leave, and suspended the boy who organized the fight. So now difficult child is kicked out of IOP, has to attend an alternative school where his safety is threatened, and has court in a couple weeks. I'm so upset that I can't even answer calls from my family and friends. I am isolating myself because no one else in my life understands this nightmare I'm living. Yes, I'm having a pity party all by myself!