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Loss of hope, mostly venting
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<blockquote data-quote="Beta" data-source="post: 753646" data-attributes="member: 22597"><p>I could have written parts of what you just wrote. I'm having a terrible time detaching from our oldest son. I can't understand why I continue to try to reach out to him, knowing I will most certainly be abused, as I was today. I messaged him just to remind him that today is his younger brother's birthday. Oh boy--bad idea. I received abuse after abuse. I don't understand why it's taking so long for the truth to sink in to my thick head---he really does hate us and really does not want anything to do with us. What is wrong with me that I would allow someone to do this to me? </p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Yes, I know what I'm doing is unhealthy for both of us, and yet I keep doing it. It's so sick and dysfunctional.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Beta, post: 753646, member: 22597"] I could have written parts of what you just wrote. I'm having a terrible time detaching from our oldest son. I can't understand why I continue to try to reach out to him, knowing I will most certainly be abused, as I was today. I messaged him just to remind him that today is his younger brother's birthday. Oh boy--bad idea. I received abuse after abuse. I don't understand why it's taking so long for the truth to sink in to my thick head---he really does hate us and really does not want anything to do with us. What is wrong with me that I would allow someone to do this to me? Yes, I know what I'm doing is unhealthy for both of us, and yet I keep doing it. It's so sick and dysfunctional. [/QUOTE]
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