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<blockquote data-quote="Sunlight" data-source="post: 34859" data-attributes="member: 97"><p>you are going to have to take serious action to get him help. ask him to get an appointment or move out. you are not his caretaker. he is going to drag you down. why buy him another car???</p><p></p><p>you are codependent, thinking he cannot survive without you. that is not a marriage. </p><p></p><p>give him an ultimatum to go to a doctor this week or get out. he will drag the kids down too as they are not blind to what he is doing.</p><p></p><p>my husb of 32 yrs acted a lot like that a lot of the time. I finally went to a psychologist myself who told me to get out of it. I wish I had done it much sooner!</p><p>the pain could be psychsomatic as it turned out to be for my ex. he would complain of leg pain, back pain and exhaustion. </p><p></p><p>this will not end until you say so. you can still help him and love him but the example he is setting for the kids and you is not good.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sunlight, post: 34859, member: 97"] you are going to have to take serious action to get him help. ask him to get an appointment or move out. you are not his caretaker. he is going to drag you down. why buy him another car??? you are codependent, thinking he cannot survive without you. that is not a marriage. give him an ultimatum to go to a doctor this week or get out. he will drag the kids down too as they are not blind to what he is doing. my husb of 32 yrs acted a lot like that a lot of the time. I finally went to a psychologist myself who told me to get out of it. I wish I had done it much sooner! the pain could be psychsomatic as it turned out to be for my ex. he would complain of leg pain, back pain and exhaustion. this will not end until you say so. you can still help him and love him but the example he is setting for the kids and you is not good. [/QUOTE]
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