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<blockquote data-quote="Lothlorien" data-source="post: 34863" data-attributes="member: 1024"><p>I agree with ant'smom....you need to tell him that he either has to do something to make himself well or he needs to find other living arrangements. You aren't his caretaker. He is not an infant. He is not a child.</p><p></p><p>You should not have to move out or sell your own home, because he can't get his life together. He needs to be motivated and leaving him in the house to fend for himself is not going to motivate him. The ultimatum of get help or get out might. If it doesn't than you have no other choice but to make him find other living arrangements. You cannot live this way.</p><p></p><p>The problem is that you don't think you have the strength to do this.....Find it within you to do it. You can. You need to.</p><p></p><p>Hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lothlorien, post: 34863, member: 1024"] I agree with ant'smom....you need to tell him that he either has to do something to make himself well or he needs to find other living arrangements. You aren't his caretaker. He is not an infant. He is not a child. You should not have to move out or sell your own home, because he can't get his life together. He needs to be motivated and leaving him in the house to fend for himself is not going to motivate him. The ultimatum of get help or get out might. If it doesn't than you have no other choice but to make him find other living arrangements. You cannot live this way. The problem is that you don't think you have the strength to do this.....Find it within you to do it. You can. You need to. Hugs. [/QUOTE]
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