Well, I just lost it with the school assistant who complained about me to the mayor's office because J wouldn't listen to me and come with me after school on two occasions, and because he hit me during his meltdown... I tried to express my great frustration that 1) The principal was told of J's diagnosis last summer and did nothing, told no-one 2) After a week in which he receives no accommodations or special interventions, and is doubtless stressed and exhausted, he had a meltdown during which he hit me because I am the person he trusts. She just looked at me with this kind of mocking expression on her face, as if I were a lunatic in an asylum, and kept saying things like "IF he has this hyperactivity" and "you understand, it's not normal for a child to hit the parent, I had to tell my employers (the mayor's office)" until, well... I just lost it. Started almost shouting at her in the street. Not good. I just cannot believe people can be this stupid and this lacking in compassion/understanding. Meantime I have let my house to a British woman, initially for 6 months, from 1 May... Escape beckons. But I'm sorry it's all worked out like this.