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<blockquote data-quote="4PawsSake" data-source="post: 626638" data-attributes="member: 17993"><p>I sent him a text this morning..."I love you" That's it. He texted back "?". He's so suspicious of everyone, always ready in fight mode. I answered "Just wanted to remind you". "Oh, haha, I love you too mom" he replied.. "I'm on house arrest"..now, normally I'd be all over that like a fly on kaka..not this time. This time I answered with "Well, that ought to keep you quiet" and left it. He told me he has work tomorrow at a local crab processing plant, then asked what time legal aid closed today...another one I'd normally question but not this time..I told him "4:30" , he thanked me and that was our conversation.</p><p>That article really helped me. It's not easy to fight the urge to control and fix it for him. I know where he'll be working is an icky job, his clothes will need washing daily and I wanted to offer to do his laundry for him but HE moved out, HE wants to be on his own, HE can take care of HIS laundry!!</p><p>Patting myself on the back. My fiancé was proud of me too!</p><p>Just thought I'd share!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="4PawsSake, post: 626638, member: 17993"] I sent him a text this morning..."I love you" That's it. He texted back "?". He's so suspicious of everyone, always ready in fight mode. I answered "Just wanted to remind you". "Oh, haha, I love you too mom" he replied.. "I'm on house arrest"..now, normally I'd be all over that like a fly on kaka..not this time. This time I answered with "Well, that ought to keep you quiet" and left it. He told me he has work tomorrow at a local crab processing plant, then asked what time legal aid closed today...another one I'd normally question but not this time..I told him "4:30" , he thanked me and that was our conversation. That article really helped me. It's not easy to fight the urge to control and fix it for him. I know where he'll be working is an icky job, his clothes will need washing daily and I wanted to offer to do his laundry for him but HE moved out, HE wants to be on his own, HE can take care of HIS laundry!! Patting myself on the back. My fiancé was proud of me too! Just thought I'd share! [/QUOTE]
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