easy child 1 letting easy child 3 have her favorite pink silky blanky, him pooping all over it, and she isn't mad at him. In her high little girl voice saying "Oh your poopy!" difficult child 3 getting lots of candy at school and no one else does. He freely shares with his siblings. difficult child 1 getting sent to his room for aggression and the siblings that were on the receiving end want his 'sentence' shortened so he can play with them. Anyone else want to add?