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<blockquote data-quote="2much2recover" data-source="post: 649877" data-attributes="member: 18366"><p>I so agree. And for those of you still entangled with your Difficult Child it hard to see, in the future <em>when you are well enough (detached) </em>you will see that you are capable of loving someone with no expectation that they live the way you think they "should". You will always love your child. Always. Giving in through detachment is a way to your own personal freedom but it absolutely is about loving without boundaries - allowing the other (Difficult Child) person to live, even in ways that we would not wish for them to. Loving them when they fail, but not feeling they are so helpless (judgement) that they can not live without you rescuing them. It is a long, lonely path, each person has to walk to get to the point of loving someone without judgment.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="2much2recover, post: 649877, member: 18366"] I so agree. And for those of you still entangled with your Difficult Child it hard to see, in the future [I]when you are well enough (detached) [/I]you will see that you are capable of loving someone with no expectation that they live the way you think they "should". You will always love your child. Always. Giving in through detachment is a way to your own personal freedom but it absolutely is about loving without boundaries - allowing the other (Difficult Child) person to live, even in ways that we would not wish for them to. Loving them when they fail, but not feeling they are so helpless (judgement) that they can not live without you rescuing them. It is a long, lonely path, each person has to walk to get to the point of loving someone without judgment. [/QUOTE]
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