difficult child is 17. We adopted him from dhs when he was 8 yrs old. He has always had aggression problems. Recently he has stopped taking his Abilify and in the past 2 months we've had cops here 4 times for aggression. Cops can't really do anything except talk to him. In the last 2 weeks his stealing has progressed to taking my ATM card and making several withdrawls totally $200. He swears he did not do it, but only 3 people had access to the card and pin. He has nothing to show for the money. Last night he said he was going to the business center at our apt complex to print out a paper. That was at 11:30pm. I woke up at 1:30 am and he was not home. He didn't answer his cell phone, but called me right back and said he'd be right home. Well 15 minutes go by and no difficult child. I got my keys and realized husband's keys were gone. I go out to find difficult child and guess what MY CAR is gone. I get husband up and we go outside in time to see someone pull into the parking lot. The driver was not very good and parked by the entrance. Guess what it was my car with difficult child behind the wheel. We don't know what to do with him. I have put restrictions on his cell phone and grounded him. husband says it's not enough, but he won't do anything. Oh and difficult child does not have a drivers license or learners permit.