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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 715812" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Welcome back Jody! I remember how hard her early years were for you. Don't tolerate this behavior! Don't give her any money - it all goes to drugs and is a waste of your $$. She can earn her own money for what she wants. If she acts out or gets violent, make the police remove her and get a restraining order. I know that is so hard, but you simply cannot tolerate that behavior.</p><p></p><p>No matter what awful things she will say, you have to stand up for yourself. Especially with the health problems, you just cannot have her there and acting so poorly. I have the fibro and know how hard it is on you. My kids are sweet and don't act this way around me, and do all they can to help me. I cannot imagine battling the disease and having an adult child treat me poorly also. It was bad enough when my difficult child was young and acted out! </p><p></p><p>Be especially kind to yourself and do something nice to make up for the way she has treated you. Do NOT let her stay the 30 days if she is acting out. Don't let her stay past the 30 days if she behaves well. Insist upon respectful behavior from her at all times!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 715812, member: 1233"] Welcome back Jody! I remember how hard her early years were for you. Don't tolerate this behavior! Don't give her any money - it all goes to drugs and is a waste of your $$. She can earn her own money for what she wants. If she acts out or gets violent, make the police remove her and get a restraining order. I know that is so hard, but you simply cannot tolerate that behavior. No matter what awful things she will say, you have to stand up for yourself. Especially with the health problems, you just cannot have her there and acting so poorly. I have the fibro and know how hard it is on you. My kids are sweet and don't act this way around me, and do all they can to help me. I cannot imagine battling the disease and having an adult child treat me poorly also. It was bad enough when my difficult child was young and acted out! Be especially kind to yourself and do something nice to make up for the way she has treated you. Do NOT let her stay the 30 days if she is acting out. Don't let her stay past the 30 days if she behaves well. Insist upon respectful behavior from her at all times! [/QUOTE]
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