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<blockquote data-quote="DoneDad" data-source="post: 715899" data-attributes="member: 17244"><p>You know yourself and can feel that her behavior is pushing you over the edge. You need to detach for your own health. You can worry and fret and even have a breakdown and it won't change her behavior. She's 19 which is an adult which means you have no control over what she does. You can, however, control how much you allow in your space. Best to kick her out and focus on yourself and your healthy life. You'll be a model to her of what a healthy life looks like, and if she does come around and need help (not enabling) you'll be there for her. You can't do any of that if you let her situation drag you down until you're ill, mentally or physically.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DoneDad, post: 715899, member: 17244"] You know yourself and can feel that her behavior is pushing you over the edge. You need to detach for your own health. You can worry and fret and even have a breakdown and it won't change her behavior. She's 19 which is an adult which means you have no control over what she does. You can, however, control how much you allow in your space. Best to kick her out and focus on yourself and your healthy life. You'll be a model to her of what a healthy life looks like, and if she does come around and need help (not enabling) you'll be there for her. You can't do any of that if you let her situation drag you down until you're ill, mentally or physically. [/QUOTE]
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