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<blockquote data-quote="AngelaMia aka Merris" data-source="post: 71024" data-attributes="member: 3978"><p>difficult child is making progress. Now we have some serious issues to deal with. It's going to be REALLY hard to do this, but it must be done.</p><p></p><p>I have to confront him about what he did to me. He feels remorse, says he feels remorse, but I don't think it's enough. I don't think he understands how serious his offense was and how much it hurt and affected me. </p><p></p><p>I don't know what I want from him, but it feels like "I'm sorry" is not enough. I just know that I have to express my anger and my devastation at what he did to me. How do you make reparations for what he did? What will be enough? How will we both heal with this standing between us?</p><p></p><p>He's NOT talking about it, every time I bring it up he says he can't talk about it. I HAVE to talk to him about it. I want answers. Maybe he doesn't remember, but I need to hear his side. I need him to open up to me and let me see what really happened. I want him to sob with regret for hurting the ONE person who has been by his side his whole life, who has sacrificed everything - I want him to feel bad about what he did.</p><p></p><p>Is this spiteful? Is this mean? Am I asking too much? Should I even bother?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AngelaMia aka Merris, post: 71024, member: 3978"] difficult child is making progress. Now we have some serious issues to deal with. It's going to be REALLY hard to do this, but it must be done. I have to confront him about what he did to me. He feels remorse, says he feels remorse, but I don't think it's enough. I don't think he understands how serious his offense was and how much it hurt and affected me. I don't know what I want from him, but it feels like "I'm sorry" is not enough. I just know that I have to express my anger and my devastation at what he did to me. How do you make reparations for what he did? What will be enough? How will we both heal with this standing between us? He's NOT talking about it, every time I bring it up he says he can't talk about it. I HAVE to talk to him about it. I want answers. Maybe he doesn't remember, but I need to hear his side. I need him to open up to me and let me see what really happened. I want him to sob with regret for hurting the ONE person who has been by his side his whole life, who has sacrificed everything - I want him to feel bad about what he did. Is this spiteful? Is this mean? Am I asking too much? Should I even bother? [/QUOTE]
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