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<blockquote data-quote="Merris" data-source="post: 71690" data-attributes="member: 849"><p>You're right. I guess with everything going on now, I'm trying to get everything "straightened out". difficult child and I have years to work this through and since he IS getting better, maybe I should just let it rest until it's the right time.</p><p></p><p>There is some vindictiveness - I'm still very angry and bitter that this whole thing happened. He has turned it into what happened to "him" with the jail time and everything, but it was his actions that caused it, and the crime was committed against ME.</p><p></p><p>I love him so much, and to see him getting healthier every day is a blessing. Now with HIM out of the picture, we can go back to being a loving family. My family and I anxiously await his return to us, and I will not be throwing a monkey wrench into his recovery.</p><p></p><p>I will bide my time and maybe it will come naturally. Maybe someday he will be able to talk to me about it. Maybe some day it won't be that important to me. Like I said, I've been trying to "fix" my life now, and I want everything DONE. It's just not the time to do it.</p><p></p><p>Thanks for the good advice.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Merris, post: 71690, member: 849"] You're right. I guess with everything going on now, I'm trying to get everything "straightened out". difficult child and I have years to work this through and since he IS getting better, maybe I should just let it rest until it's the right time. There is some vindictiveness - I'm still very angry and bitter that this whole thing happened. He has turned it into what happened to "him" with the jail time and everything, but it was his actions that caused it, and the crime was committed against ME. I love him so much, and to see him getting healthier every day is a blessing. Now with HIM out of the picture, we can go back to being a loving family. My family and I anxiously await his return to us, and I will not be throwing a monkey wrench into his recovery. I will bide my time and maybe it will come naturally. Maybe someday he will be able to talk to me about it. Maybe some day it won't be that important to me. Like I said, I've been trying to "fix" my life now, and I want everything DONE. It's just not the time to do it. Thanks for the good advice. [/QUOTE]
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