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<blockquote data-quote="Big Bad Kitty" data-source="post: 56896" data-attributes="member: 3647"><p>nvts hit the nail on the head.</p><p></p><p>Your husband is treating you like a doormat because you are LETTING him treat you like a doormat.</p><p></p><p>Let me give you 2 scenarios:</p><p></p><p>Bill and Brenda are married. Bill has an affair. Brenda finds out about it. Her reaction is, "Oh Bill, what did I do wrong to make you stray? I can change! Really! Don't leave me, please!"</p><p></p><p>John and Jenny are also married. John has an affair. Jenny finds out about it. Her reaction is, "All right, you had your one chance. I found out. I have mommy eyes, and I will ALWAYS find out. If you EVER even CONSIDER disrespecting me like that again, you will find yourself out of this house without a pot to pee in or a window to throw it out of. This is your one chance, do you want to work it out? If not, there is the door."</p><p></p><p>Which wife would YOU respect? </p><p></p><p>Brenda is begging to be walked all over. Jenny "ain't playin". Even if John decided that he wants to leave, he will not string her along. He will get the hint and go.</p><p></p><p>As depressed as you are, you will never feel confident enough to tell husband to take a flying leap. ANd trust me, husband needs to be told to either treat you right, or take a flying leap.</p><p></p><p>My thoughts and prayers are with you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Big Bad Kitty, post: 56896, member: 3647"] nvts hit the nail on the head. Your husband is treating you like a doormat because you are LETTING him treat you like a doormat. Let me give you 2 scenarios: Bill and Brenda are married. Bill has an affair. Brenda finds out about it. Her reaction is, "Oh Bill, what did I do wrong to make you stray? I can change! Really! Don't leave me, please!" John and Jenny are also married. John has an affair. Jenny finds out about it. Her reaction is, "All right, you had your one chance. I found out. I have mommy eyes, and I will ALWAYS find out. If you EVER even CONSIDER disrespecting me like that again, you will find yourself out of this house without a pot to pee in or a window to throw it out of. This is your one chance, do you want to work it out? If not, there is the door." Which wife would YOU respect? Brenda is begging to be walked all over. Jenny "ain't playin". Even if John decided that he wants to leave, he will not string her along. He will get the hint and go. As depressed as you are, you will never feel confident enough to tell husband to take a flying leap. ANd trust me, husband needs to be told to either treat you right, or take a flying leap. My thoughts and prayers are with you. [/QUOTE]
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