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<blockquote data-quote="ME &amp; THE BOYS" data-source="post: 56911" data-attributes="member: 3838"><p>hELLO EVERYONE,</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry if I am makign you mad. It is not my intent.</p><p></p><p>I truly believe I am a good mom. NO, A GREAT MOM. </p><p></p><p>Maybe I will do the medication thing. I have another problem however, my Dr. just moved to Calgary. So, I am sol. Finding a new Dr. is almost absolute. I have been calling around.</p><p></p><p>Just so you know, I don't think I am ready to have him leave. Will I truly ever be ready? I can't bare the thought of no more him and I. Or him with someone else. BUT, I did ask him to leave. I can't believe I did it. I even called his sister who I no longer talk to. I called out of desperation. I asked that she, or her Mom, give my husband a place to live. They will take him in, but not my kids the weekends he has them. They have their own selfish reasons. Both of space. Is sister an extra bedroom (she lives alone), and Mom who has three spare bedrooms (and lives alone).</p><p></p><p>Please don't think I am being fussy. He is willing to go (I think so he can freely and without guilty conscinece be with this woman or a new woman), but he wants to stay here some nights to be with boys, as he claims he has no where to take them. I can't live this way. Him coming and going from this home. Nor is there anywhere for me to go by myself. <strong>CAN YOU UNDERSTAND THAT I DO NOT WISH TO SHARE A HOME WITH HIM IF WE BECOME DONE AND HE IS GONE? </strong> Many don't get it and say I am being difficult. My heart couldn't take it and I think it would mix my boys up.</p><p></p><p>I no it is not my place to find him a place. But, I thought if I could locate a place, he would leave.</p><p></p><p>I think I will dye the day this is over. He is gone. I don't think I can be prepared for this day.</p><p></p><p>The ohter problems will have to line up, AND there are so many of them. My first is getting him out and to stay out. Second, protecting my boys and making sure they know this is not there fault and that we love them. To make them feel secure and not change everythign on them once. Change does not go over well with my Challenging child.</p><p></p><p>To be quite honest, one of my fears is spending so much time alone with them (the boys). They stress me out and wear me out big big time. There is no help/support. I have looked EVERYWHERE!</p><p></p><p>I am doing my best. Really, I am trying to keep it together for my kids.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ME & THE BOYS, post: 56911, member: 3838"] hELLO EVERYONE, I am so sorry if I am makign you mad. It is not my intent. I truly believe I am a good mom. NO, A GREAT MOM. Maybe I will do the medication thing. I have another problem however, my Dr. just moved to Calgary. So, I am sol. Finding a new Dr. is almost absolute. I have been calling around. Just so you know, I don't think I am ready to have him leave. Will I truly ever be ready? I can't bare the thought of no more him and I. Or him with someone else. BUT, I did ask him to leave. I can't believe I did it. I even called his sister who I no longer talk to. I called out of desperation. I asked that she, or her Mom, give my husband a place to live. They will take him in, but not my kids the weekends he has them. They have their own selfish reasons. Both of space. Is sister an extra bedroom (she lives alone), and Mom who has three spare bedrooms (and lives alone). Please don't think I am being fussy. He is willing to go (I think so he can freely and without guilty conscinece be with this woman or a new woman), but he wants to stay here some nights to be with boys, as he claims he has no where to take them. I can't live this way. Him coming and going from this home. Nor is there anywhere for me to go by myself. [b]CAN YOU UNDERSTAND THAT I DO NOT WISH TO SHARE A HOME WITH HIM IF WE [b][/b]BECOME DONE AND HE IS GONE? [/b] Many don't get it and say I am being difficult. My heart couldn't take it and I think it would mix my boys up. I no it is not my place to find him a place. But, I thought if I could locate a place, he would leave. I think I will dye the day this is over. He is gone. I don't think I can be prepared for this day. The ohter problems will have to line up, AND there are so many of them. My first is getting him out and to stay out. Second, protecting my boys and making sure they know this is not there fault and that we love them. To make them feel secure and not change everythign on them once. Change does not go over well with my Challenging child. To be quite honest, one of my fears is spending so much time alone with them (the boys). They stress me out and wear me out big big time. There is no help/support. I have looked EVERYWHERE! I am doing my best. Really, I am trying to keep it together for my kids. [/QUOTE]
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