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<blockquote data-quote="nvts" data-source="post: 56934" data-attributes="member: 3814"><p>Whoa! No one is mad at you!!! We're getting ticked at how he's treating you and channel the energy that you need to decide what you want to do. </p><p></p><p>Frankly, I think he's coming up with these "difficulties" and "problems" for relocating because he has NO CLUE as to what he wants. Do you have a priest or minister that does marriage counseling? He needs to figure out what HIS problems are. You know what yours are and he's playing on them. I applaud your strength and your insight about how things are going to confuse the kids and you. He's trying to figure out which side his bread is buttered on at your expense! I like the "pot to pee in and no window to throw it out of...it gives a great visual!!! :smile:</p><p></p><p>As we told you before: don't do too much without getting this depression in hand...you don't want to drive yourself any more crazy than necessary. If he's dragging his feet about finding a place, let him find one, but give him a serious period of time. Most places will only rent at the 1st or the 15th of the month. If he keeps coming up with excuses, it may mean that he's not ready - so you need to make sure that you give him the ultimatum of stay and go to therapy or go to his Mom.</p><p></p><p>Please please please know that I'm not mad...at you. I just know deeply how you feel, what you're going through and I felt many of the things that you're feeling.</p><p></p><p>You're truly in my thoughts and prayers - daily!!!</p><p></p><p> :angel:</p><p></p><p>Beth (aka: nvts)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="nvts, post: 56934, member: 3814"] Whoa! No one is mad at you!!! We're getting ticked at how he's treating you and channel the energy that you need to decide what you want to do. Frankly, I think he's coming up with these "difficulties" and "problems" for relocating because he has NO CLUE as to what he wants. Do you have a priest or minister that does marriage counseling? He needs to figure out what HIS problems are. You know what yours are and he's playing on them. I applaud your strength and your insight about how things are going to confuse the kids and you. He's trying to figure out which side his bread is buttered on at your expense! I like the "pot to pee in and no window to throw it out of...it gives a great visual!!! [img]:smile:[/img] As we told you before: don't do too much without getting this depression in hand...you don't want to drive yourself any more crazy than necessary. If he's dragging his feet about finding a place, let him find one, but give him a serious period of time. Most places will only rent at the 1st or the 15th of the month. If he keeps coming up with excuses, it may mean that he's not ready - so you need to make sure that you give him the ultimatum of stay and go to therapy or go to his Mom. Please please please know that I'm not mad...at you. I just know deeply how you feel, what you're going through and I felt many of the things that you're feeling. You're truly in my thoughts and prayers - daily!!! [img]:angel:[/img] Beth (aka: nvts) [/QUOTE]
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