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<blockquote data-quote="ME &amp; THE BOYS" data-source="post: 58569" data-attributes="member: 3838"><p>hELLO AGAIN,</p><p></p><p>THANK YOU ONCE MORE FOR YOUR EMAILS. I AM TIRED. SO TIRED. PERMANENTLY TIRED. I GO TO BE TIRED AND WAKE UP TIRED.</p><p></p><p>THE SCREAMING STARTS ONCE THE BOTH BOYS ARE UP. IT DOESN'T STOP. MY CHALLENGING CHILD JUST AGGRAVATES THE HECK OUT OF THE LITTLE GUY, WHO SCREAMS OUT OF FRUSTRATION. </p><p></p><p>MY HUSBAND SLEEPS WITH ONE CHILD AND I THE OTHER. IF EITHER ARE LEFT TO SLEEP ALONE, THEY WAKE US UP NONE STOP. I MEAN, EVERY NIGHT, SEVERAL TIMES. THE MOMENT HE LEAVES FOR WORK, WHOMEVER IS SLEEPING WITH HIM, WAKES EVERYONE UP. AS I SAID, THESE ARE USUALLY EARLY EARLY WAKE UP CALLS AND YOU KNOW EVERYTHING JUST GOES DOWN HILL ONCE EVERYONE IS AWAKE. EACH CHILD SEPARATELY IS MUCH MUCH MORE MANAGABLE. I FEEL MY MAIN ROLL HAS BECOME "REFEREE". NOT FUN AT ALL. <u><strong>EXHAUSTING!</strong></u></p><p></p><p>I have not decided to allow spouse to stay here. I can't kick him out and he is refusing to leave PERMANTENTLY. Again, I can't have him coming and going out of convenience. Once he has gone, I must move on. YET, I HAVE NO OHTER SOLUTIONS. I am so tired and stressed with coming up with no answers.</p><p></p><p>How will I manage, I dont' know. I am so concerned for my kiddies and how they will handle it when and if Daddy leaves. He has been spending more time with them (but has way way less patience and is way less loving than I). Just the same, they are much liking daddy giving them his time/attention. He is doing this because I have told him when everythign is done and over and will let people know that he was "good to himself and good to his friends." And that this did not include the children and I. THIS WOULD BE THE TRUTH. I think he thought the only job he had to do was financialy support them and speak the odd word to them (the way he was raised).</p><p></p><p>I am sorry if I am confusing you all. In alot of ways I am better off with him here, as are my kids. But it is hard living with someone who does not only not love you, that has damanged your soul to the core. </p><p></p><p>I don't know how I will cope/manage with him not here. But, yes, I do want him to leave. Boy, don't I sound mixed up!</p><p></p><p>Again, the lottery winning would sure help ALOT.</p><p></p><p>Thank you for not being so frustrated with me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ME & THE BOYS, post: 58569, member: 3838"] hELLO AGAIN, THANK YOU ONCE MORE FOR YOUR EMAILS. I AM TIRED. SO TIRED. PERMANENTLY TIRED. I GO TO BE TIRED AND WAKE UP TIRED. THE SCREAMING STARTS ONCE THE BOTH BOYS ARE UP. IT DOESN'T STOP. MY CHALLENGING CHILD JUST AGGRAVATES THE HECK OUT OF THE LITTLE GUY, WHO SCREAMS OUT OF FRUSTRATION. MY HUSBAND SLEEPS WITH ONE CHILD AND I THE OTHER. IF EITHER ARE LEFT TO SLEEP ALONE, THEY WAKE US UP NONE STOP. I MEAN, EVERY NIGHT, SEVERAL TIMES. THE MOMENT HE LEAVES FOR WORK, WHOMEVER IS SLEEPING WITH HIM, WAKES EVERYONE UP. AS I SAID, THESE ARE USUALLY EARLY EARLY WAKE UP CALLS AND YOU KNOW EVERYTHING JUST GOES DOWN HILL ONCE EVERYONE IS AWAKE. EACH CHILD SEPARATELY IS MUCH MUCH MORE MANAGABLE. I FEEL MY MAIN ROLL HAS BECOME "REFEREE". NOT FUN AT ALL. <u>[b]EXHAUSTING![/b]</u> I have not decided to allow spouse to stay here. I can't kick him out and he is refusing to leave PERMANTENTLY. Again, I can't have him coming and going out of convenience. Once he has gone, I must move on. YET, I HAVE NO OHTER SOLUTIONS. I am so tired and stressed with coming up with no answers. How will I manage, I dont' know. I am so concerned for my kiddies and how they will handle it when and if Daddy leaves. He has been spending more time with them (but has way way less patience and is way less loving than I). Just the same, they are much liking daddy giving them his time/attention. He is doing this because I have told him when everythign is done and over and will let people know that he was "good to himself and good to his friends." And that this did not include the children and I. THIS WOULD BE THE TRUTH. I think he thought the only job he had to do was financialy support them and speak the odd word to them (the way he was raised). I am sorry if I am confusing you all. In alot of ways I am better off with him here, as are my kids. But it is hard living with someone who does not only not love you, that has damanged your soul to the core. I don't know how I will cope/manage with him not here. But, yes, I do want him to leave. Boy, don't I sound mixed up! Again, the lottery winning would sure help ALOT. Thank you for not being so frustrated with me. [/QUOTE]
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