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<blockquote data-quote="busywend" data-source="post: 69590" data-attributes="member: 391"><p>Well, he may change, but it will only be temporary if he is bipolar and not medicated.</p><p></p><p>It is important to be happy for yourself. A marriage is supposed to add to your happiness in life, but it is not your entire life. When he became sullen and unhappy after getting married, perhaps it was due to the expectations of marriage not being what he thought - but when he will not communicate what can you do? I am with a non-communicator. We went through a spell and broke up last year. We both realized we did not want to be without the other. But, we had to communicate a lot during the months of getting back together. Some of it was painful, let me tell ya! If he was not going to open up - we would not be together today. </p><p></p><p>No matter what you decide to do with your marriage - you need to decide to get happy right now. That may very well mean ending the relationship - but the reason will be much clearer when you are happy. </p><p>One never knows - the happiness you used to have could be just what attracted him to you and when he sees it again....truly you just never know. </p><p>That last bit is assuming you would want it to work out and improve.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="busywend, post: 69590, member: 391"] Well, he may change, but it will only be temporary if he is bipolar and not medicated. It is important to be happy for yourself. A marriage is supposed to add to your happiness in life, but it is not your entire life. When he became sullen and unhappy after getting married, perhaps it was due to the expectations of marriage not being what he thought - but when he will not communicate what can you do? I am with a non-communicator. We went through a spell and broke up last year. We both realized we did not want to be without the other. But, we had to communicate a lot during the months of getting back together. Some of it was painful, let me tell ya! If he was not going to open up - we would not be together today. No matter what you decide to do with your marriage - you need to decide to get happy right now. That may very well mean ending the relationship - but the reason will be much clearer when you are happy. One never knows - the happiness you used to have could be just what attracted him to you and when he sees it again....truly you just never know. That last bit is assuming you would want it to work out and improve. [/QUOTE]
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