So husband saw psychiatrist today, they are starting therapy. psychiatrist has tried so many medications with husband, so many bad side effects pop up. The medications that helped the most were the ap's and they give him tardive dyskinesia. psychiatrist is filling out the referral paperwork to send him to the Mayo Clinic for treatment resistant bipolar I. He wants husband's pain doctor to sign off on it too for the pain that seems to be impossible to control. Maybe even will get pcp to sign it too. He will be going to the mayo in Minnesota, psychiatrist said that is the one he would go to, so husband wants to go there. I have no idea on time frame, since the paperwork process is just starting I am guessing it will be awhile. I have no idea how I am going to pay to get there, psychiatrist said that the Mayo clinic will help pt's with travel expenses sometimes, but not always family members. I would have to pay my way, maybe husband's way or part of it, and find places for the kids to be. I have no idea how I am going to accomplish all this, but I will find a way. I am glad that maybe something is finally going to give, and maybe we will find something that will help husband. This has been so long in coming.