So I was reading up on my flexible spending account for uncovered medical expenses. I can use it toward a hotel if I am visiting a minor child and that is part of the treatment plan. I can also get reimbursed for my mileage. I am out of funds for this year, but for next year? I really am beginnning to doubt that difficult child will be home before January. This will so help, especially if I can stay overnight a time or two. It gets really old driving 4hrs there, staying for 3-5hrs, and driving 4 hrs home!