I am trying - so very hard - to not be a mule about this....but.... 45+ year old SpEd teacher's grandma died and they called off the IEP meeting. It is now tentatively set for Tuesday afternoon. School starts Wednesday. I'm sorry her grandma died, but maybe we should have been working on this 3 weeks ago, not NOW. They have no intentions to have him there for a full day or to give him any different paras. "He needs to learn to work with a variety of people". He needed to have a group of people working together to get things in place for him for school, that starts Wednesday, a month ago. I'm sorry your grandma's dead, but my kid is still alive, and they are planning to do exactly what they did last year with him. Over my dead body. I have not been this angry in a long while.